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Starting school...

2011-09-05T20:10:00.001-05:00

Our precious little five-year-old will be going to school!

This milestone has come so quickly that we wonder if we dare turn around for fear of missing the next five years!

Our kind, caring, sensitive, fun-loving, curious, eager, sweet boy.

We wonder what will become of him?

Will he thrive and grow?

Will he stay a kind and gentle boy who loves his baby sister?

Will he be strong in the world out there? How will he turn out? Will he manage to survive?

His is no longer that little baby that we could corral in our arms;

or that little guy who would sit on the floor and try to make us laugh.

Our precious little five-year-old is going off to KINDERGARTEN!

This is harder for us than when each of our own children first got on the bus and went off to school...

"Oh LORD, we pray for this child of yours that you would hold him in the palm of your hand and

keep him safe. Protect him from the world and show him the path he is to take.
Guide him along his way. We are thankful to know that You love him even more than we do. Amen"

Baby Xavi...

2010-11-21T21:18:00.009-06:00

Somewhere in southern California on a rare and beautiful day, little Xavi Matteo was born.

The sky and the ocean met in one fluid shade of blue and a mild sea breeze could be felt along the shore, gently tugging at the palms. The water lapped the beach ...

When she felt another gentle tug and a tightness in her tummy, she knew... and then the water. The time had come!

...the ever present surfers were oblivious to the drama unfolding only a few short blocks away...
and the sun began to settle for the night. The shades were drawn in the little cottage, the preparations made complete. Their focus never waivered as they labored toward their dream. He was to be born into the water - gentle, warm, comforting...

The words came gradually. Short texts.
He was born sometime after midnight.

Eight and a half pounds! (Wake up, Grampa! He's here!)

Name is Xavi. What?

Xavi Matteo. Oh, Ok.

How do you pronounce it? "Chavi" Oh, ok.

(Wake up, Grampa! He has a name!)

How are they?

O.K.

Ok, good.

She's nursing. Ok, good.

(Hey Grampa!, He's nursing!)

s-e-n-d p-i-c-t-u-r-e! (please!)

Here he is, all brand spanking new! and beautiful! (Wake up, Grampa! Here is his picture!)

Soon there were more pictures and a wonderful visit in person. Up close and personal! He is bonding with his Mommy and Daddy. He is eating and sleeping and cooing. (and making lots of diaper changes necessary.)

My favorite thing to do is to unwrap and look at all the brand spanking new baby parts...

...chins and arms and elbows and hands. Hands! Just look at those hands!

Those hands work so well to hug Mommy!

And his Baby feet! are so sweet! (Hey Grampa! Just look at those feet!)

Button nose and dark hair and eyes... and just look at those fuzzy cheeks!

He only has eyes for Momma... and a bit of a smile too!

Dear sweet Momma! "I love you!"

Trusting sweetly and napping peacefully, knowing that he is loved and cared for.

Natually his very first outing would take him to the beach... a favorite family affair...

Another day. Another sunset. Welcome, Baby Xavi! You are so very loved!

Grandchildren time...

2010-10-03T20:29:00.002-05:00

We enjoyed a wonderful weekend with some of our family. Happily it included our three grandchildren! We went to the zoo, picked out pumpkins at the farm, pet many different animals, had a campfire at night and enjoyed lots of hugs and kisses.
Gabriella and Elodie tried out their new halloween jammies...

Even though it was cool, we went to meet the pony neighbors. We fed apples to the ponies, and Elodie decided that she needed an apple too. Here we are trying to stay warm.

The zoo day was perfect! Warm and sunny. The animals enjoyed the beautiful day too. Elodie sure loves animals. She knows all their names and even the sound each makes.Grandpa got a kick out it too!

Mother's Day again...

2010-05-08T09:06:00.003-05:00

Some things bear repeating.... Happy Mother's Day
"Most of all the other beautiful things in life come by twos and threes by dozens and hundreds. Plenty of roses, stars, sunsets, rainbows, brothers and sisters, aunts and cousins, but only one mother in the whole world." --Kate Douglas Wiggin

"A boy's best friend is his mother." --Joseph Stefano

"Grandma always made you feel she had been waiting to see just you all day and now the day was complete. " --Marcy DeMaree

"Grandmas hold our tiny hands for just a little while.....but our hearts forever." --Author Unknown

"Nobody can do for little children what grandparents do. Grandparents sort of sprinkle stardust over the lives of little children." -- Alex Haley

"Grandmother - a wonderful mother with lots of practice." --Author Unknown
"Mothers all want their sons to grow up to be president, but they don't want them to become politicians in the process." --John Fitzgerald Kennedy

"A mother is the truest friend we have, when trials, heavy and sudden, fall upon us when adversity takes the place of prosperity when friends who rejoice with us in our sunshine, desert us when troubles thicken around us, still will she cling to us, and endeavor by her kind precepts and counsels to dissipate the clouds of darkness, and cause peace to return to our hearts." --Washington Irving

"A mother's arms are made of tenderness and children sleep soundly in them." --Victor Hugo "Over the years I have learned that motherhood is much like an austere religious order, the joining of which obligates one to relinquish all claims to personal possessions." --Nancy Stahl

"Of all the rights of women, the greatest is to be a mother."

-- Lin Yutang

"The phrase 'working mother' is redundant." --Jane Sellman

"The most important thing a father can do for his children is to love their mother." --Theodore Hesburgh
"To describe my mother would be to write about a hurricane in its perfect power." --Maya Angelou
"Youth fades, love droops, the leaves of friendship fall; a mother's secret hope outlives them all." --Oliver Wendell Holmes (1775-1817)

"All women become like their mothers. That is their tragedy. No man does. that's his." --Oscar Wilde

Happy Mother's Day to the beautiful mothers (and grandmothers) in my family!

A New Year...

2010-01-09T10:40:00.007-06:00

2010
"Two Thousand Ten"
"Twenty-Ten"
"Two Ten"
Whatever you want to call it, the new year is upon us! Here's hoping it is better for all of us than Two Thousand and Nine! At our house, we are hoping for new opportunities, new experiences, new places to travel, new friends and more new directions in our lives!
I am planning on continuing to cut those new grooves.
But...
I am even more convinced that it is time to simplify!
I hope to get rid of lots of "junque".
I want to take control back from the stuff that rules my life!
I plan to wage a war against PAPER!
I will put technology in its place!
I also resolve to get rid of cassette tapes, Videotapes, 33RPM records, 35 mm slides and floppy disks!
As usual, I have made some pretty ambitious goals. I have aimed rather high, but "A goal properly set is halfway reached." Abraham Lincoln
Anthony Robbins said, "Setting goals is the first step in turning the invisible into the visible."
Check on me down the line to see how I am doing!

Poor Baby...

2010-01-05T21:47:00.004-06:00

I am at a loss for words for a caption for this picture. I just can't stop laughing! Poor baby...

Life and Stuff

2009-11-05T19:32:00.007-06:00

"One word frees us of all the weight and pain of life; That word is love." ---Sophocles

Life is like an onion; you peel off one layer at a time and sometimes you weep. ----Carl Sandburg

"Practice hope. As hopefulness becomes a habit, you can achieve a permanently happy spirit." ---Norman Vincent Peale

"It's always too soon to quit." ---Norman Vincent Peale

"Our attitude toward life determines life's attitude towards us." ---Earl Nightingale
"The best thing about the future is that it only comes one day at a time." ---Abraham Lincoln

"Music has charms to soothe the savage breast, to soften rocks or bend a knotted oak." ---William Congreve

October 25 - Hamburger and Fries Day

2009-10-25T12:33:00.003-05:00

Nobody could hold up the line at McDonald's like my brother! Our family would stop there for lunch on our semi-annual trip to Madison. It was only after suffering through our regular dental visits that we were treated to the extravagance of lunch at the new hamburger joint on Park Street.

We certainly earned our 19-cent burgers and 15-cent fries those days! We had endured the usual rigamarole in the dentist's chair and the interminable wait in the boring waiting room with the horrible "elevator" music. Good old Dr. Nania had presented each of us with the usual nickel or package of sugarless gum (nothing at all like we have now) and we would be on our way! I still wonder why I was always the one that also had to have a "little" cavity drilled and filled on the spot - sans novacaine! (It was probably better than scheduling a follow-up appointment, however, which I would have had to dread for weeks until it was over with.) All of it brings back horrible memories except the lunch at McDonald's!

We never ordered our own. We just waited in the car in happy expectation while our parents did the ordering. It was a big job, you see, and they had to handle it. We just waited in the car... and waited, and waited, and waited... I can imagine the conversation inside: "Oh, one of those six burgers has to be plain!" "No, no ketchup, no mustard, no pickle!" "No, I said no pickle! Now you have to start over... the pickle has touched the bun!" Screech! The assembly line ground to a halt while someone figured out how to make a McDonald's hamburger that was "p-l-a-i-n"! while we waited in the car...

Today I think I will have my burger and fries at Burger King where a person can have it their way. "Hold the pickles, hold the lettuce, special orders don't upset us." By the way, Happy Burger and Fries day in honor of my Big Brother's Birthday! Make mine plain, please, just like his! He would have been 64!

Happy Anniversary!

2009-08-31T06:29:00.003-05:00

He's caring.
He's considerate.
He's clever.
He's creative, convivial and kind.
He's positive,
proud,
patriotic
and a man of prayer.

He's generous, devoted,
respectful, enthusiastic,
energetic,
and loving...
He is wise and wonderful.
He's handsome,
happy,
healthy,
thoughtful and careful.

He's a giver,
a tenor,
a lover,
exhorter,
provider,
protector and problem-solver!

He's musical, he's ethical, he's wonderful.
(Did I say that already?)

He is supportive.
He is understanding.
He is industrious.

And he
cooks for me,
and he makes my tea.
And he starts my yoga video for me!

He's my plumber,
my mechanic,
my electrician and mason.
He's my roofer, finisher, gardener, and landscaper.
He is my installer and appliance repairman.

He's my rosemaler,
woodworker,
calligrapher,
dog trainer,
tincture-maker,
fire-builder,
and doggie trainer.

He has character.
He loves the Lord.
He is a great Dad.
He is a doting Grandpa.

He is the best.
He wants the best.
He always tries to do better!

...and he is my friend.

So glad I married him forty-one years ago today!

Phil "Junior"...

2009-06-27T21:07:00.002-05:00

Rachel had a great time rummaging the other day. She was very excited to find more tools to add to her growing collection! Her latest finds: a chain saw, a large bolt cutter (to use for trimming bushes) and a shovel! She recently received a scroll saw and belt sander from some family friends and is planning projects for her home. Already in her collection are a mitre box, drill, hammer, screw drivers and other various small hand tools.

If you really wanna make her happy she would love a circular saw!

Phil enjoys this as much as Rachel does. He gets to play with the tools, too, as he shows her how they work and teaches her how to sharpen them or oil them or whatever...
Rachel hangs the cabinets and shelves at her house. She also has been know to help her friends and relatives install mini-blinds and other stuff.

Look out now! She will be cutting down trees with her new chain saw!

Of course, there is no job she would rather do than "mother" her kids. She just likes to have something to do while they are napping! (hahahaha)

Good job teaching her, Phil!
I bet she can even change a tire and an oil filter...

Welcome home...

2009-05-25T16:17:00.011-05:00

Welcome home, Jerome!
It has been seven months since you were home and we are so glad to have you back! They changed some doors and built you a ramp and deck, but it is still HOME.
Your bathroom has been changed so you can move around in there, but it is still HOME!

We love you and we are proud of how hard you have worked to be ready to come home.

It is so good to see you enjoy being outside and visiting with friends and neighbors! It is so good to see you decide when you want to come in again. Dianne is happy to have someone to cook for and it looks like you are happy to have her cooking!

It has been a long journey,

and we have seen you come so far...

The boys came often to visit you and they began to feel right at home at St. Luke's. They were just glad to be near you.

Thanksgiving.

Birthdays.

Christmas.

and a New Year!

Valentine's Day.

Easter. Spring!

Many friends celebrated your progress and prayed for your return to strength.

We love you Jerome! and continue to pray for you and for your family. Welcome Home!

Memorial Day...

2009-05-25T16:12:00.005-05:00

We celebrated Memorial Day as we often do with a visit to the veteran's cemetary at Wood, Wisconsin. It is always an emotive experience, but is especially so on this day of "remembrance". The straight rows of headstones formed ranks in every direction and each marker was decorated with its own American flag. Families walked among stones, thinking... remembering. We instinctively went to our location in section B, marker number 194 - Chester Mowbray DesRochers, Ensign - U.S. Navy.
As always I simply said, "Hi Dad!"

One thing that caught our attention was the peace and quiet that is always a part of the experience. Another notable thing was the beauty of the grounds with the lush, green grass and the flowering shrubs lining the drive. Finally we wondered at the sheer numbers that were buried there. Men and women who shared the common bond, whether in peace or at war, of service to our great country. We walked among the markers, we thought of them and we remembered with gratitude.

Back home at Woodland Wonderland we proudly fly the flag. Each day as we count our blessings we count our freedom, our nation, our patriots. We remember and we are grateful . May God Bless America.

Family Fun...

2009-04-27T19:54:00.011-05:00

Cousins, Elodie, Gabriella and Owen, got lots of attention during their recent visit to Grandma Mama & Grandpa Phil's house. Wanna see? Click the arrow below, and watch!

Rising Star...

2009-04-18T15:53:00.006-05:00

I was privileged to meet and greet several members of Lori's "family" of stars at their headquarters in Brandon, Florida. It was great to discover yet another part of Lori's world. Her world of work. Celestar Corporation has seen significant growth in recent years under the leadership of company CEO, Greg, his capable wife and company V.P., Joanne, and the company's President, Ralph.

They were small business of the year finalist in 2008.
Check it out! http://www.celestarcorp.com/celestar_html/index.html

Yeah, so what do I know? I'm just a Mom...
...but I do know that Lori loves her work, loves the people that are a part of her work and they take good care of her. It's a two way street and that's what counts for me!

She loves them; they love her;
she's a star and they let her shine!

Lori's Triathlon...

2009-04-15T10:31:00.008-05:00

Just when I think my days of spectating are over I am invited to be a fan at another event! The Escape Ft. DeSoto Triathlon took place on Saturday in St. Petersburg and I just happened to be in town for the occasion. Even the little training that Lori did paid off as she walked away with first in her age group! http://trievent.com/escape/

It was fun times with Lori and friends as they participated in the .5 mile swim, 11 mile bike and 4 mile run. It started in a deep fog at the beach where you could hardly see the orange bouys and kayaks that directed the more that 11oo participants over the swim course and back across the beach to the transition. Lori and her friends, Erinn and Angie started in the same wave - different age groups.

Erinn's hubby, Tony and their nephew, Matt followed up in the men's division as the men participated in their first-ever "Triath-a-lon" ...

...complete with a cheering section of extended family from Pittsburgh, PA! It is a faithful fan club that will show up before dawn and stay until the finish! and listen to the details of a struggle to keep swimming while being dunked and battered and kicked in the "free-for-all" known as the men's swim.

(Special thanks to Lori's main "support staff", photographer and number one fan, Constantin, who also happened to be in town for the occasion.)

Lori finished with a strong run and posted high in the women's standings with her 1:08 time.

By the end the sun had burned through the morning fog revealing a gorgeous blue sky, brilliant sunshine and great beach temperatures! Woo Hoo!, Lori Jo!!

Time to celebrate with a twinkie and a ho-ho!

Remembering Chet...

2009-04-08T05:29:00.002-05:00

"Chetty”
10/25/45 — 4/8/99
Remembering a Classic…

It seems impossible that it has been ten years since he has gone. But count them again! It has been TEN! Ten years since cancer claimed his life. Ten years since he lost his courageous battle with that destructive foe. Ten years since we gathered as a family to mourn his passing. Ten years since we had to say goodbye to him. But...

...we said we would remember him and we will continue to do so! Indeed, we will always remember him! We remember collectively when we head out for our hamburgers and french fries on October 25 and compare notes about our meals via email.

Each of us also remembers in our own special way. Myself... I particularly enjoy looking at old pictures. I love poring over those old photos from long ago... snapshots that were taken with care to preserve moments and memories. (Thanks, Mom, for your watchfulness and for always being alert for a "Kodak moment"!) Like this one of Grandpa, Dad and Chetty playing with the train set one Christmas.

Sometimes I remember him with awe as my big brother - so strong, so smart, so cool! I wanted to be like him. Or, at least, I wanted to do all the things that he got to do. Like driving and going to high school and acting in plays and stuff.

Sometimes I remember him without awe. He was too strong, too smart, too cool and always had the upper hand. He always won in things like, "pink belly", "indian underwear" and "ninety-niners". Try as I might, I lost every time. (Did anyone EVER get him back?)

Class of 1964. The year the Beatles came to America, wasn't it?

He usually took charge and sat at the top when we took the "stair" pictures like this one in 1973!

The best part of remembering is the realization that, even though he has gone ahead, we will see him again someday. It thrills my heart to know that he is in heaven now - a much better place! He is where there is no more suffering or pain; no sickness or disease; no worry or anxiety; no waiting; no time! The greatest gift he ever gave us was the reassurance that he had trusted Christ in his life and knew where he would spend eternity. (I am so grateful to God for this fact and for the truth that we can know our destiny and that Christ is enough in this life and in the life to come.)
I picture Chet in Heaven's great Banquet hall - at the rowdy table, of course - and I just know that he is saving seats for all his dear family and friends!

Chet with his precious family Jeanne, Jen, Aim and Nic

...and Momma, Mimi.

He may be gone from this earth, but he definitely is not forgotten! As a matter of fact his spirit lives on! His spirit lives on in all of us, but it is so apparent in the lives of his daughters! These stong, smart and independent young women are leaving their mark (and his) on this world. Their joi de vivre is contagious, their individuality is powerful, their generosity is spontaneous and their laughter is outrageous!

Chet's spirit lives on in Nic (and Farn) who are "testing their moxy around the world"; challenging every adventure with, "Is that all you got?" He lives on in Aimee's quiet strength and her loving, loyal spirit. He is there in Jeanne's wild, and articulate exposes of her everyday life that leave me weak from laughter.

Knowing that his spirit lives on keeps me smiling ...

Chet with Nic...

clowning with Aim, Troy and Nic...

Jen and Nic running in their underwear for a great cause!

Hey bro! I hope you are saving a place for me up there! (at the rowdy table, of course)

Florida fun...

2009-03-05T21:19:00.011-06:00

I guess Florida has been my favorite place to spend my birthday, so it was no surprise that I planned to do it again for the big "6-oh!" ...and since Rach had just reached her 30th in January,

she thought it would be fitting to come along. Owen and Gabriella made it a foursome as we traveled to the Sunshine State for a lonnnnnng weekend. Owen was excited to be going on an airplane again - his fourth plane trip in his short 2 1/2 years! A veteran by now, he came equipped with his portable DVD player, toys, books and his new "monkey" leash... I mean, back pack!

We flew into Ft. Meyers and went straight to Cape Coral, where we stayed in the comfortable Florida home of dear Aunt Vivi and Uncle Jim. It was just as we had remembered it; and we basked in the warm hospitality that is a constant there on Sunny Brook Court!

The focal point for these north-country escapees was the beautiful swimming pool! Warmed up to 80 degrees and kept spotless under Uncle's watchful eye, it was fully enjoyed by all of us. Owen delighted in throwing all of the toys and balls into the water while others retrieved them. The sun found its way to the patio every day and warmed us with its best Forida rays. Geckos darted on and off the sidewalk, staying just far enough away to prevent capture, but Owen enjoyed the hunt anyway, climbing under all of the deck chairs in the chase.

We all enjoyed spending time with Gramma Mimi, who enjoyed the role of co-hostess while we were there. She remembered with me all the birthdays I have spent in Florida in recent years. What fun! And, of course, everyone knows that G-ma is the birthday queen, remembering lots of special dates for lots of special people... It is nice to be remembered, even at my age!

Saturday's sunrise found us packing the van for the short drive north to spend the day at St. Pete Beach and the evening in Tampa with Lori Jo.

We enjoyed the view of the Tampa Bay bridge while Owen got his first splash in the water.

The skies were blue and the water a delicious green. We all enjoyed the fine white sand and hunting for shells. Owen even made friends with another two-year-old who shared his Thomas toys and beach balls with him. Always generous, Mimi shared her sandwich with the seagulls. (Almost shared her finger, too!)

It was fun (and important to all of us) to spend time with Lori Jo! It was great to learn more about her "world" where we walked around, explored Channelside and met her best friend, Erin. One thing she loves is that everything is within walking distance or a Trolley ride away. After taking Owen to a playground and having supper, we got to be part of the noisy exit of the pirate ship, Gasparilla, and we watched the revelers celebrate. Some of them tried to share their strings of beads with Owen, but he didn't want anything to do with it!

After dodging a few raindrops and then warming up with Starbucks, we spent the next morning at the Aquarium, another short walk away.

Mimi never misses an opportunity to give a geography lesson!

...and I need all of the geography lessons I can get. However, I must admit that my GPS has made my life a lot easier and even helped in getting us to all of our various destinations in Florida.
Owen was certain that he had found Nemo! He also found many other fish; many of which were much larger than he was. (Including a Grouper that may have grown to be 800 pounds!)

The sun came out in time for lunch and pictures in the outdoor play area. Owen played with his little toy Manatee - his favorite souvenir of the trip.

In the afternoon we took the Trolley back to our car and reluctantly left Lori in Tampa.

Not wanting to miss a minute of our last day in Cape Coral, Owen got us up at dawn. We took a ride to the pier and the beach where we enjoyed an early morning walk both directions along the beach;

we took one last chance to go to the park and then we spent the rest of our day enjoying the sun from the warmth of the patio and yard at Sunny Brook Court. Our visit was made even more special because we shared our time with other family visiting from the cold north!

Here's hoping that our Florida birthday trip will leave lasting memories for all of us!

Thank you Aunt Vivi, Uncle Jim, G-ma Mimi and Lori Jo!

It was a blast!

Meet Milwaukee, Mario...

2009-02-19T05:54:00.008-06:00

Meeting Mario.

Sunshine, blue skies and smiles.

The MAM, Milwaukee Museum and Mo's Irish Pub.

Mellow moments, making memories;

Meaningful conversation.

May be a match...

Semester Exams...

2009-01-26T16:48:00.002-06:00

The room was silent.
The students were absorbed in their Algebra exam: factoring, simplifying, solving equations.
The teacher was walking about the room monitoring progress and checking calculations. This teacher was thinking, "Semester exam time is hard on everyone.
Students are anxious...
Teachers are under pressure..."

Then the teacher farted. (loudly)
"phffffffpbtpbtpbtpbt!!!!" (oh no! stand still! keep a straight face!)

Ben looked at Todd. Kevin glanced at Emily. Austin looked up with a "whodunnit" expression on his face. Greg was sure it was Jordan and slid his desk to the side...

The students did what they so often do!
...overlook the obvious! (and today that's okay!)

Cousins Club...

2009-01-11T17:33:00.004-06:00

Girls just wanna have fun...

Elodie and Gabriella are already sharing clothes! They have also looked at each other via webcam; they have chatted on the internet and they have sent each other picture mail on their cell phones. And, though they haven't yet mastered the skill of "texting", they will soon be meeting in person! They are planning a "sleepover" at Elodie's house. They will soon be getting together and comparing notes on their quite recent arrivals into this world. They will share their adventures so far and will compare notes on what it is like to be cozy in their little cradles, to wear pink, to be snuggled by their mommies and adored by their daddies and put up with a big brother.
Well, at least their Mommies will be comparing "notes".
We are so excited to know that Rachel and Julie will be planning new adventures and starting to make memories for these little cousins. We are so glad they will know each other from an early age.
Well, Owen. You are certainly outnumbered... one sister and four girl first cousins (so far). You might as well grin and bear it.

Christmas 2008

2008-12-31T14:18:00.007-06:00

Gabriella Grace was born on December 23 - her Great Grandma Loretta Larsen's birthday. We all delighted in Gabby's pretty face, pink skin, soft hair and tiny size! She looks great in pink, too, which is a good thing since that is Owen's favorite color. Owen's first visit to the "hotsipal" to meet her was not without incident. He cried in the elevator and refused to go near it again. (We later found out that he thought we were calling it an 'alligator'... but aren't sure if his anxiety was because of that or because of the weird feeling you get when you ride on an elevator.)
Owen met his "baby sister" for the first time... but was most interested in hugging his Mommy

There was much excitement and anticipation as we waited for their arrival home from the "hotsipal". Soon enough they came through the door and we welcomed them home; Rachel, Roger and their baby, Gabriella Grace. It was Christmas morning and we all felt as though we had received the sweetest kind of gift... reminding us of the gift that God gave us on that first Christmas so long ago... We sang Happy Birthday to Gabby, and we sang Happy Birthday to Jesus - at Owen's prompting.
Here is Owen welcoming his baby sister home.

Here is Owen in front of the Christmas tree.

We enjoyed a traditional Christmas dinner of turkey and all the trimmings...

and before we could get the dishes done, Roger and Owen were tearing into the presents! (Our family tradition lets the youngest go first and they sure did!)

Here are Roger and Owen showing off their matching Father-Son Vikings pants.

Rachel and MaryBeth were next,

with the rest of us opening ours last - but certainly not least!

Thank you one and all for the nice gifts. We are thankful for the thoughtfulness and generosity of our children (and of Mimi too). They have continued to shower us with love and gifts - time after time - year after year! We love the Memory book that captures highlights from our lives together. It will be a cherished album. Thank you!

Owen enjoyed playing with his many new toys...

Thank you for the Tonka digger, Aunt Lori. It is like Grampa's!

Here is a photo that is another "tradition":

the 4-generation picture!

GG-ma Mimi, Grandma Mama, Mommy and Baby Gabriella.
Since she may not remember her first Christmas we wanted to have lots of pictures to show her some day!

Colorado visit...

2008-12-16T21:57:00.005-06:00

Happily we got to meet little Elodie Ruth Olsen!
Child of my child. Firstborn of my firstborn...
It was a special moment for all of us.

Phil savored quiet moments

and sang his baby granddaughter to sleep...

We celebrated family at the Thanksgiving table;

enjoying one another and giving thanks for the

chance to be together! We are so blessed.

Sunday visitors...

2008-11-16T06:59:00.004-06:00

We were surprised by not one, but two, different young bucks that came through our yard. We had to keep the dogs inside while we enjoyed these beautiful deer.
They may have been scared out of the forest by hunters that had gone in the early morning on their relentless pursuit of these beautiful creatures.
Too young! Please leave these guys alone... They are still curious and unaware and perfectly lovely as they move around; exploring the planters, bird-feeders and shrubbery... Let me enjoy them a little longer. Perhaps they are the twins that were raised by a young doe which would pass through our neighborhood on a daily basis three short years ago!

These whitetail deer are just an example of the species that is Wisconsin's state animal. Male whitetails re-grow their antlers every year. Bucks less than two years of age typically have short spiked antlers. However the number of points or thickness of the antlers do not determine the age of a buck. Antlers begin to grow in late spring, covered with "velvet" which they rub off on the trees in their habitat. These Bucks have a symmetrical antler arrangement. They are the same on both sides and the points grow straight up off the main beam. Antlers are a coveted "trophy" for hunters.
This is their mating season, or "rut'. The bucks use these antlers to mark their territory by rubbing on trees and occasionaly to fight with other males. Bucks shed their antlers when all females have been bred, from late December to February.
We hope they come a visit again!

Happy Birthday, Karen...

2008-11-10T19:26:00.006-06:00

Don't be too shy to have yourself a Happy Day!!
Go ahead and live it up...

More pictures...

2008-11-09T13:56:00.003-06:00

Mommy and Baby...

Elodie...

The dangling burp trick...

Resting up...

Elodie Ruth...

2008-11-06T20:14:00.006-06:00

Introducing our beautiful new granddaughter, Elodie Ruth.
A picture is worth a thousand words...

Waiting...

2008-11-03T19:03:00.009-06:00

I can't think of a lovlier place to be "waiting" than in the mountains of Colorado. ...Waiting for a baby, that is.Julie was a wonderfully good sport and didn't even consider sitting around. While waiting out the days past her "due" date we kept busy enjoying bright blue skies and unseasonably warm days. After going out to lunch one day we hiked the peninsula in Lake Dillon. Another day we walked around Lower Cataract Lake. (Which, by the way, will also be an ideal spot for fishing and picnicking some day! ) The walk around the lake (probably 2 miles roundtrip) crossed the falls and Cataract Creek at the far end of the lake. The falls dropped down the cliffs to the creek and splashed over rocks and under a bridge making a fun place for the dogs (and us) to play.

A couple of the days we just walked around the block in her neighborhood or relaxed in the sun on her big front porch. As usual, we went one day to Hot Sulpher Springs where we soaked in the relaxing hot mineral springs that overlook the Colorado River. Reluctant to leave, we stayed until after dark!

You can't escape the costume party if you are with Julie and Todd at Halloween! It was hard to choose from their selection of costumes, but I finally settled on being a "cow" - udder and all! Julie went as a clown and Todd was a Pabst afficianado with an afro... go figger...

My visit was made complete with a visit from Aimee and her pup Jasper. After spending a great day with Jewels together, I took her up on her generous offer to drive me to the airport! Aim, you made my day and what a great opportunity to get caught up. Thanks so much...

Nope, no baby yet. But we sure hope she comes soon! We are all so anxious to meet her! As I write this I remember how many weeks I was "overdue" with my first baby girl.

And I also remember that old lady that pronounced so glibly to me: "When the apple's ripe, it'll fall!"

Yeah, right, lady!!!!!!

Cross Country...

2008-10-18T17:37:00.003-05:00

It was a beautiful day for a cross country meet and Nagawicka Park was especially decked out with fall colors at their peak. I originally went just to be outside to enjoy the weather, but I also wanted to watch some of my "kids" compete. Kevin, Rachel, Josh, Sam, and others. I saw the Physics teacher there. He was doing the same thing. Something he said is still ringing in my heart... "It's all about relationships, isn't it?"It has been fifteen years since I last attended this big meet and the memories came flooding back. At that time I went to watch my own kids run. I loved those days and I especially enjoyed the cross country meets. I was always an enthusiastic parent spectator: I'd begin at the starting line watching the runners take off; I'd dash up the hill to the next vantage point; run across the park to another spot where I could see them as they emerged from the woods; then it was down to the finish line to cheer them in! "Push it!" "Go!" "Lean forward!" "Catch the one ahead of you!" "Faster!" "Pass her!" "Now go get the next one."
Today I went to watch my "school" kids. They were surprised. Delighted even. Hearing me on the side of the trail, they would glance over at me and I would see a tiny flicker of recognition. I even sensed that they pushed just a little bit harder then. Afterwards, "Wow, you came!" "Thank you!" "Did you see me catch them right after that turn?" "I was off my personal best, but my knee was really hurting."
"But you finished strong! You did a great job!" I shook their hands, met some parents and came away proud of each and every one.
"You're right Mr. V, it's all about relationships!" The teaching will come later......

Dear "Birth Mother"...

2008-09-21T08:18:00.007-05:00

Somewhere in Wisconsin is a lovely young woman and, though I don't even know her name, I already love her. I thank the Lord for her and have promised myself to pray for her. Having nurtured new life for nine months - all the while praying for wisdom - she made the beautiful decision to place her baby girl in the loving and capable arms of my friends Sara and her husband Chris. She could not have made a better choice and, if I could talk to her today, this is what I would say:
"I met tiny Emma Grace on Friday. She was only 9 days old, slightly less than 8 pounds and nursing sweetly from a bottle. In spite of her diminutive size she had already turned her new home "upside down"! Though quiet, the joy in their home was palpable. Sara was so graceful as she lovingly tended to Emma; Chris showed fatherly pride in his baby's charm.

"She is so calm!" I remarked. Emma stretched and yawned and curled her tiny arms about her round face. She peeked out of her sleep to see the new faces, rolled her lip down and blinked in the light. Her beautiful hands, long arms and legs, and slender feet were so delicate. Sara glowed and Chris smiled; their love for their tiny daughter shining in their faces. It was beautiful, natural and utterly complete! Thank you for your courage and your love."

Anniversary Celebration...

2008-09-10T06:18:00.009-05:00

A full weekend of fun was planned for the family's celebration of our 40th Wedding Anniversary. All our girls as well as Mimi came home for the occasion and there was no shortage of food, fun and celebration! We traveled in style in a 12-passenger van! We ate in the "Pope's Room" at Milwaukee's famous Buca di Beppo restaurant. (The Italian food and the Red Velvet cake were out of this world!) We tailgated at Miller Park and took in a Brewer game. (they lost...) The guys golfed at Rainbow Springs while the girls "showered" Julie with baby items for her little girl which is expected to arrive in October.
Phil enjoyed the "experience" of grocery shopping with the pros - Julie and Lori. We took walks and runs and sat around in the yard. Some of us enjoyed a late night campfire while others of us enjoyed the early mornings with Owen... We enjoyed hanging out in the kitchen making breakfast together (we used our new griddle) or snacking on "Skinny Cows" (are they really legal?) We tried Calimari, tasted non-alcoholic beer, played pool and even tried a new "softer" t.p. (Thanks to Julie and Lori.)

Slightly short on sleep, everyone has headed back home and to work, remembering the fun times and wishing they didn't fly by so quickly! Our Fiftieth will be a calmer affair...?

Rog & Rach, MB, Jewlie 'n Todd, LoriJo and Constantin
Front Row: Owen MM and Phil

Forty Years...

2008-08-31T19:39:00.007-05:00

HAPPY 40TH ANNIVERSARY!

A tribute to 40 years...too many memories to even begin to mention. To tell you the truth, we just can't imagine that it has really been that long! Where have the years gone?

Thankfully we have our health and strength, our family and EACH OTHER. We have meaningful and satisfying work, great kids, places where we like to travel and a lovely place to call "home". God has blessed "exceedingly and abundantly, above all we could ask or think!" I guess we will trust Him for the next year or forty more!

"Meem Dawg"...

2008-08-12T09:44:00.004-05:00

Don't you think that Mimi looks cute with a doggie?

Just look at how this one loves to jump on her lap!

See? She knows just where to scratch him!

Does Mimi need a doggie?

Let's vote!

Your vote counts!!!!

Vote early and often!!!

YES or NO

"MY WISH"...

2008-07-28T06:05:00.001-05:00

Happy Birthday, Mary Beth!

"My Wish"
by RASCAL FLATTS
I hope that the days come easy and the moments pass slow,
And each road leads you where you want to go,
And if you're faced with a choice, and you have to choose,
I hope you choose the one that means the most to you.
And if one door opens to another door closed,
I hope you keep on walkin' till you find the window,
If it's cold outside, show the world the warmth of your smile,
But more than anything, more than anything,
My wish, for you, is that this life becomes all that you want it to,
Your dreams stay big, and your worries stay small,
You never need to carry more than you can hold,
And while you're out there getting where you're getting to,
I hope you know somebody loves you, and wants the same things too,
Yeah, this, is my wish.

I hope you never look back, but ya never forget,
All the ones who love you, in the place you left,
I hope you always forgive, and you never regret,
And you help somebody every chance you get,
Oh, you find God's grace, in every mistake,
And you always give more than you take.
But more than anything, yeah, and more than anything,
My wish, for you, is that this life becomes all that you want it to,
Your dreams stay big, and your worries stay small,
You never need to carry more than you can hold,
And while you're out there getting where you're getting to,
I hope you know somebody loves you, and wants the same things too,
Yeah, this, is my wish.
This is my wish
I hope you know somebody loves you
May all your dreams stay big ....

...never stop dreaming

...I'll LOVE you for always!

Last Day...

2008-07-18T15:03:00.013-05:00

It was hard to think that today (Friday) would be our last full day of vacation in Colorado, but we kept playing and working - enjoying every minute of it. You sure stay busy at julie's house!

She got her Dad to make a trench to bury the barn electric wire and even Owen enjoyed seeing Phil run the backhoe. (Only one telephone wire was broken in the process! oops!) We got in more biking and walking and playing on the 4-wheeler. The "kids" made a tent for Owen to play in.
We also played some more with the ponies!

Aimee and Shane made it up here in time for dinner. Aimee showed us her new bike.
(Grandma was happy to have some time with Aim!) Then we all celebrated Julie's birthday (again) with steak on the grill and a red velvet birthday cake! mmmmmmmmmm Mimi placed the candles on the cake and, fortunately, we did not need a fire extinguisher before Julie blew them out!

The days have been warm and the nights have been cool. I guess that is how it is in the mountains. We will certainly miss this beautiful place and our family here, but have been blessed to enjoy them all so much this week.

Colorado fun...

2008-07-17T20:49:00.013-05:00

She loves "those wide open spaces"... and we have all certainly enjoyed them too! The landscape surrounding Olsen's Handlebar Ranch is scenic and spacious.

The mountains rise in every direction and the Blue River flows in the valley below. We have enjoyed walking and biking each way on Kit Carson Drive - (County Road 1001).

Kremmling, the closest town, is 10 miles north. Home of the Mustangs and a lovely park and playground. Owen loved the Vietnam era helicopter and the eagle sculpture; i.e. the "hopicopter" and the "hummingbird". We all enjoyed the water pad with fountains, sprays and arcs of water in which to cool off.
We were so lucky to be able to watch a mountain bike race in the outskirts of Breckenridge. Todd raced in the Expert Division over a course that was 19.5 miles long! We were able to cheer him on over the final "lap"! Owen yelled for Uncle Todd - "woo hoo"!

Phil's favorite thing all week, besides the day of fishing, was the tour of the Country Boy Mine! We went into the cold, wet tunnel about 1000 feet to learn of the miner's life and work in Summit County in the late 1800's.
The tour ended with an opportunity to pan for gold! Phil has often talked about trying that, and he was happy to finally have the chance. Several of us tried our hand at it, some of us discovering tiny golden particles in the sand at the bottom of our pans!

Colorado Vacation...

2008-07-15T16:55:00.010-05:00

It has been a busy couple days here at Todd and Julie's house! There is so much to do and we want to do it all! Thanks to Rachel and Owen for getting our day started with Yoga stretches.

Thanks to Julie for getting a little bike and tow-behind burley so Owen and Rachel could join in on the fun.

Some of our vacation activities include:

breakfast with Todd before he leaves for work

picking up rocks in Sadie's and Geri's pasture

reading

napping

playing with ponies

playing on Todd's tractor

and learning to run a dump truck and backhoe

sucking on "juicecicles"

relaxing on the deck

swimming in the big "blue" pool

and soaking in the pools at Hot Sulpher Springs

Mountain horizons...

2008-07-14T17:38:00.008-05:00

Our exciting and long-awaited adventure to Todd and Julie's started on Saturday when we left Anoka with Mimi, Rachel and Owen! After 1100 long miles,

a stop at Wall Drug for our "free ice water"

and time to play in their back yard,

a visit to Mt. Rushmore,

one cold night of tent camping, (brrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr)

and a winding drive through Rocky Mountain National Park, (where we spotted this moose and many elk, antelope and mule deer!)we arrived on Sunday afternoon.

Julie, our enthusiastic hostess, has planned a week of fun for everyone!

Owen already got to know Sadie's little pony friend, "Geri" (which is short for geriatric)

...and we went down to see Julie's river (they have river access rights to the Blue River) which flows north about 10 miles from here to Kremmling and into the Colorado River. Phil got water for Julie's plants, Mimi picked wild flowers, Owen threw clover blossoms into the rushing water and Caleb took a swim....
This is a such beautiful place. I am excited to know that Julie will soon be starting a blog from here called Mountain Horizons.
Much more to come....

Independence Day...

2008-07-08T10:55:00.008-05:00

I must admit that part of the joy of grandparenting (or grand-aunting, for that matter) is watching your offspring and the generation of their peers do the business of parenting! (I had the opportunity to do that last week on the Fourth of July and am very happy with what I see!)
It is amazing to see them use their skills as these young parents gently shape and raise the young members of the next generation. It is sometimes hard work, but it is important business and they know it! They each use such different styles and have different temperaments, but they are meeting the unique needs of their youngsters!
I sometimes enjoy just watching...

I see them use their eyes and hands, their words and songs, their arms and hearts to love and nurture. They teach, they correct, they communicate, they make memories and they pass along our way of life. They are quick to explain things and they show their little ones respect and yet they have some expectations and rules and a few non-negotiables... They help them learn to work and grow and pray, and they foster independence.

I think they know exactly what they are doing! ...and it is my job to pray for them and for their little ones. I believe this is the way to preserve and perpetuate our faith, our family and our freedom.
...and, when done well, they will work themselves out of a job - just like I did!

The "Kids" of Summer...

2008-07-01T10:30:00.004-05:00

...let us play with them again this year. Softball, that is... and we are having a blast. Even though I hung up my (very old) glove in 1989, I got it out of mothballs last summer to play with a bunch of fun (aka young) teachers. Although he played a lot as a sub last year, hubby officially joined the roster this season. He's usually at first base and I get to play second! Last night we teamed up again to get a crucial "out"!
How fun is that?
With practice, we feel we are getting better at our hitting and even running! There is nothing like the cheers from teammates calling me names like "Lightening" and "Golden glove"!
... or was that "Olden glove"?
Nevermind.
We are having fun for a season and showing those "kids" that we're really not getting older we ARE getting better! As Philpy says, "I sure love hanging out with those 'kids'!"

Happy Birthday, Paula...

2008-06-24T07:26:00.006-05:00

I love how you approach life with such enthusiasm!

Keep it us, Sis, you are amazing.

ENJOY your day!

Life-long learning...

2008-06-21T08:16:00.006-05:00

This summer I have decided to try to learn something new every day. (Well, at least 5 days a week. I will take off on the weekends.)

This week I learned:
1.) You should tie up your daffodil stems until they dry out when the blooming is done. They look nicer while the nutrients go back into the bulbs!

2.) Rhubarb is $2.99 a pound in the grocery store. I'd get rich if I sold mine. But I'd rather give it away!

3.) I can use my cell phone as a calculator! (Those kids were right!)

4.) If I shop carefully I can find exactly what I am looking for at a Rummage Sale!

5.) No matter how grown up you get, it is still wonderful to go home to Mom's house!

She's a girl!!!

2008-06-12T21:19:00.010-05:00

She will be a little girl that takes after her Mommy!

We just heard about her today...

Her parents are thrilled and tickled pink;

...and planning for her birth day!

Happy Birthday, Owen...

2008-06-12T17:06:00.012-05:00

Happy Birthday, Owen!

Happy Birthday to our beautiful boy!

Two years ago, a bundle of joy.

You are learning and growing and changing so fast...

Discovering 'Life-growing' lessons expansive and vast.

Happy Birthday to our exuberant boy!

Two years of loving and giving us joy.

You've been enchanting and delightful from first to the last...

Thanks, little Grandson, we have had such a blast!

Milwaukee County Zoo...

2008-05-16T19:13:00.010-05:00

We have had a membership at the Milwaukee County Zoo for several years with the thought that someday we would take our grandchildren there. On Mother's Day weekend we had the perfect opportunity to introduce Owen to some of the Zoo's finest. What a great day!

The happy hippo below was finishing every last leaf of hay for her breakfast while her mate took a swim.

Have you ever been THIS close to a tiger?? Hold on tight, Grampa!

How about these Polar Bears? They seemed a little bit out of sorts. Maybe they are missing the ice and snow...

We watched the elephants have baths inside, then we watched them outside... getting dirty all over again!

The peacocks were beautiful as they competed for the attention of the hens. (All that strutting and the hens didn't even appear to notice.)

Owen's favorite word of the day was peacock.

Have you
ever seen dancing bears?

Brown Bear, Brown Bear, What do you see? "I see Owen looking at me!"

It was a fun day for all, but a few of us needed naps when we got home! We will have to go back again to see all the critters we missed.

Basketball kid...

2008-04-06T16:05:00.005-05:00

We had visitors this weekend and we planned many activities for them. However, the basketball kid only had one thing on his agenda:

"Shoot the backetball, Gramma!"

"Watch Grampa!" "Oh, baby!!!"

"Big backetball!"

"Got it!"

It was fun, but Grampa is tired now and needs his nap.

We hope our little visitor will come again soon, but in the mean time Grampa will keep working out to get in shape for backetball...

Sweet Sixteen...

2008-03-27T17:27:00.010-05:00

Dear Megan,

Hold on to the moment, Sweet Sixteen!
It's gone before you blink!
Hold on to the memories, the laughter, the fun!
More important than you might think.

Hold on to your sweetness, Sweet Sixteen!
Don't grow up so fast!
Savor each moment, each blessing, each loved one.
Invest in those things that will last!

Hold on to Jesus with all your might
And lean on His great love!
Trust Him to guide you, your pathway to light,
With wisdom that's from above.

Hold onto this year, my godchild,
Unwrapping the moments with care.
Sixteen is a gift just as you are a gift
To be treated as precious and rare.

Love,
Mary Margaret

One in the oven.......

2008-02-27T17:44:00.006-06:00

Will it be a little girl that takes after her Mommy? ? ? Or a little boy that will want to fill his Daddy's big shoes? ? ?

Even though we are dying to know, the important thing is that we're thrilled to announce that we will be grandparents AGAIN!

Todd and Jewelie are "infanticipating" sometime in October and their little one will be another addition to the ever-growing "cousin's club".

Best Wishes to the parents-to-be! Blessings all around!

Windchill -40 degrees...

2008-01-30T18:28:00.000-06:00

January 30, 2008

Batten down the hatches
A blizzard's coming through!
Pay attention to the scratches
at the door of doggy, do!

Here it comes, an icy blast;
Beware the great barrage!
Of bitter cold and windy gale
And frozen pop in the garage!

I cannot stand this winter cold;
It’s 57 in my kitchen.
Is it me, am I just getting old?
Can YOU cook in a mitten?

They called and said no work today.
Didn’t let it get to my head.
I surely can’t go out to play
So I’m going back to bed!

Playtime...

2008-01-27T07:51:00.000-06:00

A busy boy comes to my house to play,
and he keeps me running all the day!

He runs, he jumps, he shoots the ball!
And he plays at the easel in the hall.

He loves his collection of matchbox cars;
The red and the black and the shiny blue.
He shares the fun with Tazzie, his dog,
Did I hear him say "Doggy, you play too!"

A little boy comes to my house to play,
and we love to hide and seek!
His giggle and laugh keep the "blues" at bay.
...here he is, take a peek!

Rocky Mountain High...

2007-12-02T20:14:00.000-06:00

We thoroughly enjoyed our visit to Todd and Julie's home in Colorado last week.

Here is their ranch under a spectacular blue sky on one of the many lovely days we spent there. This is their house, garage and newly constructed horse barn. The home is beautiful with its vaulted ceilings, brightly painted rooms and unique open staircase. (All appropriately decorated with photos of its occupants engaging in a variety of "extremely" dangerous sports as well as an antiquated pair of Phil's zebra-striped-skiis from the 70's.)We celebrated Thanksgiving Day by watching the Packers win at the neighbor's home. Mimi was so rowdy that she attracted the attention of several other "neighbors".

Our Thanksgiving Dinner was on Friday and included all of the customary dishes.

The best part was sharing the day with not only Julie, Todd and Mimi but also with Amy DesRochers, Shane and their puppy Jasper. While we feasted Caleb and Jasper wore themselves out with all of their their playing. Phil and Todd installed their new dishwasher while Amy got some knitting tips from Mimi.
Saturday included a hike in the fresh mountain air with Mimi setting the pace and Phil snapping photos on his new digital camera! Saturday evening's full moon was one more gift from God; The One Who put this entire beautiful scene together... Suitably, we spent the evening under the moon soaking in the healing mineral waters at Sulphur Springs. What a way to mellow out...Our visit ended as it began with Phil planning his next trip to Colorado..... and another Rocky Mountain High.

Where's the baby....?

2007-11-19T18:37:00.001-06:00

Where did Owen go?

He was right here a moment ago!

There he is!

He's right here in Gramma Mimi's backyard!

We put a basket out on our front porch...

2007-11-06T17:53:00.000-06:00

...and nothing happened.

...but we had rhubarb in the freezer and flour in the pantry, so we made a delicious rhubarb pie!

Then we called up our Pastor and invited him over to share it with us.

mmmmmmmmmmmm

2007-10-04T21:05:00.001-05:00

DesRochers Family Reunion - July 28, 2007

2007-08-11T07:03:00.000-05:00

Here we are. The DesRochers kin and the people that love us! Nearly sixty of this widely scattered family gathered together from places far and near to reunite, reconnect and remember. This reunion found four generations of us in one place; from the octogenarian to the weeks old infant. Wouldn't Grandpa and Grandma "D" have been amazed at this gathering of their many offspring!

Could it really have been 40 years???

2007-08-10T07:46:00.000-05:00

We attended my 40th class reunion in Evansville this summer and renewed many acquaintances and high school friendships. For once, Alice (Oregon) and Diana (California) and I were all at the same reunion! I am thankful to the faithful organizers that put this on every five years; the constants of our now middle-aged ranks who still remember everyone's name and face: Bo and Kenlyn, Nancy, Karbet, Steve...

Here we are, still smiling after all those years. Many are retired, but many have reinvented themselves and have launched businesses and new careers. Most of us straddle a similar place, stationed between the needs of our aging parents and the needs of our adult children; but glowingly in love with our grandchildren.
It was fun.

DesRochers Family Reunion...

2007-08-01T07:01:00.000-05:00

Images from the DesRochers Family Reunion
July 27-29, 2007
North Prairie, Wisconsin!

2007-06-12T07:06:00.000-05:00

A year's gone by
How time has flown
We can't believe
How Owen's grown
He is such a joy
and so much fun
Oh my! Our Baby's
Turning One.
(adapted from Hallmark card)

A busy little boy...

2007-05-21T17:23:00.000-05:00

Josiah liked Uncle Phil's big blue truck! (There is just something about little boys and their trucks!)

By the way, Uncle Phil really likes it too.

Josiah played the piano for us....
and he showed us how he plays ball.
He certainly has a happy smile that he is very willing to share!

Taz liked going for walks with Josiah...
and he was a good little dog for him!
(...Taz sure got worn out and fell asleep as soon as Josiah left!)

All of us, including Lori, decided that he is a really cool kid, and so
we hope Josiah will come and visit us again soon.

Two and a half hours later...

2007-05-20T13:54:00.000-05:00

It was worth it after all!
Thanks, Mom, for not letting me quit when I wanted to!

Thanks to my many faithful supporters!
(...some of whom were willing to sit for two hours
while 1400 names were read,
only one of whom they knew!)

Special guests came to our house on Saturday to celebrate the graduation and to enjoy the lovely
Saturday weather.

Nothing quite like a spring afternoon on the porch!

Commencement...

2007-05-19T07:10:00.000-05:00

Five years ago I began a journey.

One week ago I completed my last final exam.
On Monday I stood before my professors to present my action research project.

Today we celebrate the completion of my Masters degree!

I am thankful for supportive family and friends and colleagues who have all helped along the way. I praise the Lord for this privilege and opportunity. God has been so good to me!

Motherhood...

2007-05-12T19:14:00.000-05:00

"Most of all the other beautiful things in life come by twos and threes by dozens and hundreds. Plenty of roses, stars, sunsets, rainbows, brothers and sisters, aunts and cousins, but only one mother in the whole world." --Kate Douglas Wiggin

"A boy's best friend is his mother." --Joseph Stefano

"Grandma always made you feel she had been waiting to see just you all day and now the day was complete. " --Marcy DeMaree

"Grandmas hold our tiny hands for just a little while.....but our hearts forever." --Author Unknown

"Nobody can do for little children what grandparents do. Grandparents sort of sprinkle stardust over the lives of little children." -- Alex Haley

-- Lin Yutang

"The phrase 'working mother' is redundant." --Jane Sellman

"All women become like their mothers. That is their tragedy. No man does. that's his." --Oscar Wilde

Happy Mother's Day to the beautiful mothers (and grandmothers) in my family!

Sixty Reasons Why...

2007-04-30T05:53:00.000-05:00

... he means so much to me!

He's caring.
He's considerate.
He's clever.
He's creative, convivial and kind.
He's positive,
proud,
patriotic
and a man of prayer.

He's generous, devoted,
respectful, enthusiastic,
energetic,
and loving...
He is wise and wonderful.
He's handsome,
happy,
healthy,
thoughtful and careful.

He's a giver,
a tenor,
a lover,
exhorter,
provider,
protector and problem-solver!

He's musical, he's ethical, he's wonderful.
(Did I say that already?)

He is supportive.
He is understanding.
He is industrious.

And he
cooks for me,
and he makes my tea.
And he starts my yoga tape for me!

He's my plumber,
my mechanic,
my electrician and mason.
He's my roofer, finisher, gardener, and landscaper.
He is my installer and appliance repairman.

He's my rosemaler,
woodworker,
calligrapher,
dog trainer,
tincture-maker,
fire-builder,
and doggie trainer.

He has character.
He loves the Lord.
He is a great Dad.
He is a doting Grandpa.

He is the best.
He wants the best.
He always tries to do better!

...and he is my friend.

When you turn 60...

2007-04-28T14:02:00.001-05:00

...take more time for your favorite things...

Find yourself fishing!

Get yourself Golfing!

Grab opportunities with Owen!

Continue your creative cooking.

Take it easy once in awhile!

Travel new and exciting trails!

...but most important of all, PLEASE TAKE ME WITH YOU!

Congratulations - A Ribbon...

2007-04-23T22:08:00.000-05:00

at your first show!

Beginners Honorable Mention at the

Norse Rosemaler's Association Show.

for your beautiful painting!

I'm so proud of you!

See, you just keep getting better and better...

and better and better!

A Busy Weekend...

2007-04-22T20:32:00.000-05:00

Phil, you still got it! WOW!

Friday evening: grade the driveway.

and ...run the compactor!

Saturday morning: pour out the concrete.

and finish the concrete... soooooo nice.

Sunday afternoon: Spread the dirt and plant the shrubs.

Voila! A big job is beautifully done.

Thank you so much. It is beautiful, and you made it almost look easy.

What else happens when you pray?

2007-03-22T09:30:00.001-05:00

God answers again!
If you have a request that is big, such as finding a lost earring or small, such as finding a little church in which to serve, it would behoove you to pray about it. At least that is the lesson that I learned from my sister recently.
On our way to Reiley's birthday party in Illinois on Saturday I lost one of my earrings. Since they were a gift from my daughter and were irreplaceable, I was sad that I wouldn't be able to wear them again...

At the party we met the "prayed-for" twins and enjoyed their sweetness. We also had the opportunity to catch up (sort of) with the boys. We watched as they tumbled and flitted from one activity to the next. Their growth in body, mind and soul being another testimony of God's design. It is exciting to watch the unfolding of the little people they are becoming and it is evident that their safety is prayed for daily!

Finally we were able to see the Little church for which my sister prayed. First having been led by God and then taking a leap of faith, my sister and her husband moved from the big city to the little city. They bought a home, found new work and moved all their stuff. In her heart of hearts my sister wanted a place where her husband could minister and that was the desire of his heart. So she prayed for a "little church". "Is that too much to ask", she wondered as God was already answering her prayer. In God's own way He gave them the desires of their heart. He provided "exceedingly and abundantly" above all they asked. He gave them a church home and gave PR a place to minister and serve and use his gifts and talents. On the way home we decided to pray about finding my lost earring. "Is that too much to ask?" Then we looked in the car and under the seats. We stopped at places where we had been along the way and looked. We looked at the gas station and in the driveway. Home again, I looked one last time under the seat. There, stuck in a crevice, where I thought I had already looked, was my earring! Thank you Lord!

What happens when you pray?

2007-03-18T15:02:00.000-05:00

God answers!

Our niece, Karina, knew what she wanted and that was to have more kids! But she also understood her limitations... So she did what any believing child of God should do and she went to her heavenly Father about it. She prayed for twins... (I call it "two for the price of one".)

Her beautiful twin daughters are a double blessing and a constant reminder to all of us that God answers prayers! We were delighted to meet them and hold them and share in her double scoop of "two-for-the-price-of-one" joy.

Kate and Madison Austin - age 11 weeks.

Surprised speechless...

2007-03-05T18:06:00.000-06:00

After nearly 39 years of marriage I was certain that there would be no way my mate could keep a secret from me; and by my 58th birthday I thought that I had pretty much seen it all. At least that was what I thought... but I was wrong!

Last week, on my birthday, I was waiting in the car while Phil checked us into our hotel for a "little" vacation in Florida. (Lori was with us and MB had decided at the last minute to fly down and join us too.) Sitting there, I just turned to glance at a car that had pulled up along side us and... everyone in that car looked familiar! That was weird. I looked again. I blinked. I was momentarily speechless. My thoughts churned: whoa... wait a minute! whe? ...whaa? ...who? When I found my voice, "OWEN!" was all that came out, but they were ALL there! Julie from Colorado; Rachel, Rog and the baby from Minnesota and Mimi at the wheel of a rental car! With perfect timing, Mimi had left from Cape Coral in the morning, swung through the Orlando airport to pick up the others and pulled up along side us as we checked in - to a gorgeous fully appointed vacation suite! The various flights were nothing less than miraculous as most of us escaped just ahead of snow storms, blizzards and bitter cold temperatures.

Later we were joined for pizza by Mark, Kathy, Tyler and Abbey! (another miracle... another story) We met up with them again later at Universal Studios.

We sunned and funned; we used the pool and the spa; we played and we walked and we laughed. We ate giant hamburgers and Lori's lasagna; we rode rollercoasters and shuttles; we played Pictionary and Soup (thanks to Tyler); we drank coffee, watched movies , took pictures, shopped the outlets and took many turns hugging Owen.

Though the idea originated with Phil, it took off as each one joined in on the surprise. It took everyone to pull it off, and each one did their part to make it a special four days together. I will never forget it. It was AWESOME! Thank you.

The Birthday Girls - MM and Kathy

Ladies Man

G G-ma relaxing

Universal Studios

We saw Abbey and Tyler too.

Tried Feeding Tyler to the Shark!

My Daddy...

2007-02-25T22:02:00.001-06:00

This is a day I remember well. It was one of those rare, but wonderful, days spent together with my family doing things we loved to do. For me, playing in the water at the pool was a treat, and so was getting time and attention from my Daddy. Here he is holding me tight and keeping me safe at the swimming pool. Since I hadn't learned to swim yet, it was a little scary in the water, and I just wanted him to hold me all the time. Besides, he was my Daddy, and I couldn't get enough of him.

I remember him splashing and clowning and making me laugh. I remember him encouraging me to splash, too, and I would splash and feel so proud and I would feel so loved. I marveled at how he could blow bubbles and how the water could flow in and out of his mouth and how he never swallowed any and he never choked! My favorite thing was riding on his back while he did the breast stroke. He could glide so smoothly through the water and I remember feeling so safe... even at the deep end! Then, he had this thing that he would do when I least expected it. When we were just short of the edge of the pool, my Dad would take me and push me away and say "paddle!" and "kick!" I can remember being scared to death, but I paddled and I kicked and I got myself to the edge of the pool. I hated that. I hated him pushing me away. I hated being separated from him. I hated how hard it was paddling and kicking and getting to the edge on my own. But I did it... and I learned... and I came back for more.

Much of my life with my Dad was like that. Having a real relationship with him was elusive. It just wasn't to be. I wanted to be with him; I wanted the security of his love; and I wanted him to be proud of me. But just when I would feel safe and secure with him; just when I would relax and start to laugh; when I would least expect it, he would push me away again... and I would 'paddle and kick'. Some days I had to kick like my life depended on it. I hated it, but I did it... and I learned... and I came back for more.

Occasionally, now, I enjoy a memory or two of my Dad. I like to remember how entertaining he was; how he made us laugh. My sisters and I often find ourselves quoting his "one-liners" and enjoying a private chuckle. We remember the highs and the lows; the volatile moods; the enthusiasm that would rise and then suddenly take a nosedive. But the thing that makes me happy is that I can remember when he was young and handsome and brilliant and funny and that he loved me. That is how I remember him today; holding me tight and keeping me safe in the swimming pool...

I just wish he wouldn't have let go.

Laser Blue...

2007-02-22T05:31:00.000-06:00

We got our first brand new car in 28 years! A Laser Blue Chevy Equinox LT2. It is absolutely gorgeous and feels like it was made for me! (The days of no car payment are over for awhile... but I will accept that.) Two years of planning went into this happy purchase.

Phil said, "Happy Valentine's Day" and "Happy Birthday" and "Happy Graduation" all in one! THANK YOU! I LOVE IT!

p.s. There is room for at least three car seats for our grandchildren...

Dedicate...

2007-02-12T20:58:00.000-06:00

"To set apart for a special use. To commit oneself to a particular course of action."

The Sunday baby dedication ceremony was simple and sweet, much like the ones that came to observe it. In it, Roger and Rachel made a public commitment to raise their little boy in a Godly home and allow him to be all God created him to be. We, in turn, made our own commitment to support this little family in their endeavor. Owen's real grandmas and grandpas and aunts were there, but so were his "church" grammas and grampas and aunts.
There is nothing quite so sweet as the fellowship of believers as they gather to encourage and support their own. It is a true family. The Family of God.

Glorious morning...

2007-02-02T19:23:00.000-06:00

There it is low in the western sky
The bright and beautiful moon.
And to the east the sunrise says,
"The day is coming soon!"

Glorious mornings inspire me -
The promise of a brand new day.
The hope it brings is from the One
Who turned my night to day.

"May I use this day, O Lord,
Doing that which is the Best.
And when I sink into my bed
Please grant me replenishing Rest."

Orthodontia...

2007-01-28T07:52:00.000-06:00

In spite of several lost retainers, (and searches through garbage bins and swimming pool filters)...
In spite of a few broken wires due to eating hard candy, carmel corn and apples...
In spite of the mess made because of our inability to abstain from chewing gum...
In spite of many trips back for more wax to protect tender cheeks and lips...

An investment in Orthodontia - only $7,500.00 for 5 people! (Average cost $1500)

The return on the investment - Priceless!
Smiles, Smiles, Smiles!
"Thanks, Dad!"

One of Life's Little Lessons...

2007-01-17T05:49:00.000-06:00

First you find your foot...

and next find your big toe...

Then you put it in your mouth.

WOW! What a good learner...

Happy Birthday, Rachie...

2007-01-13T13:39:00.000-06:00

Moon Shadows...

2007-01-04T05:55:00.000-06:00

"Did you see the moon out there?" I asked.
"Yup", he replied, "and I saw moon shadows too!"
I ran to the door just to see and I am glad I took the time.

It took me back. Way back. Back to when she was a little girl. She was my friend and she was also my favorite "moodshadow" companion. She was the one that would take the time to ask me to go out for a little walk at night when the moon was bright. I'm glad I took the time.
Walking at night is especially enjoyable when the moon is full and bright and casts your shadow far out ahead of you. When your eyes get used to the night, it is no longer dark, but beamy. The radiant moon luminates the world in a way very different from the sun. It's exciting and interesting and a new way to look at ordinary things. And then there are the moon shadows. Long and tall and strange; sometimes eerie or ghost-like, but always a delight to discover. Moon shadow tag? I am glad I took the time.

Happy Birthday, Markie boy...

2007-01-01T10:09:00.000-06:00

Forty-two years ago you made our day;
Your "grand entrance" came with minor delay.

A new little brother with which to play;
You're now a man who'll be famous one day!

In our hearts you know you will stay,
So Happy Birthday on this New Year's Day.

An Innocent Bystander...

2006-12-29T06:44:00.000-06:00

It really wasn't his idea, but he went along with it anyway.
He figured that if it made his aunts happy, he would be glad to wear the green jersey with the number 4 on it. What's the big deal?
His Mommy and Daddy were both quite diplomatic and didn't comment or complain as we put it on him. They let him wear it home and then to his other Grampa's house. That's when things got a bit sticky. It seems that the Minnesota relatives don't like the color... or something. Well, I dunno.... What's the big deal?
His Uncle Mark says he has good taste as it concerns his wardrobe. He says maybe we'll get a little holiday miracle and the Packers will make the playoffs. In short, he says, the Giants have to lose and the Packers have to win. (and that's the big deal!)

What's for lunch?

2006-12-27T17:41:00.000-06:00

Diane's White Chile
(This would taste good anytime, but was especially delicious on a recent winter day for my family. I doubled the recipe.)
Ingredients:
1 T Olive Oil
1 lb boneless, skinless chicken breast halves, cubed.
1/2 onion, chopped
1 1/4 cups reduced-salt chicken broth
1 small (4 oz) can mild green chilies, chopped
1 tsp garlic salt
1 tsp ground cumin
1/2 tsp dried oregano
1/2 tsp dried cilantro
1/8 tsp ground cayenne pepper
1 can (15 oz) cannelloni or white kidney beans, rinsed and drained
2 green onions (white part and 3 inches of green part) chopped
2 oz shredded Monterey Jack cheese
Directions:

Heat oil in a large saucepan over medium-high heat. Add chicken and onions; cook 4 to 5 minutes. Stir in broth, green chilies and spices. Simmer 15 minutes. Stir in beans and simmer 5 minutes more.
Serve chili immediately, topped with green onions and cheese.
Add a green salad and warm cornbread for a complete meal.
Recipe from Diane Powell - friend and educator.

Merry Christmas...

2006-12-25T23:15:00.001-06:00

Lighted Christmas trees, so straight and tall;
With surprises beneath them for one and all.
Bright eyes and smiles and loved ones around
Christmas traditions and memories abound.

Look to the manger, the baby so small;
Emmanuel, "God with us", for one and for all.
Bright hope of heaven, the angels still herald,
New Christmas miracles and joy to the world!

Merry Christmas and may God bless us... every one.

Happy Birthday, Mimi...

2006-12-18T21:14:00.000-06:00

When are you gonna act your age?

Hope you always stay so cute! Love, MM xoxoxoxoxoxxo

Aunt Anne saves the day...

2006-12-17T14:05:00.001-06:00

...or "Making that all-important first impression!"

I was thrilled to be invited this year to the teachers' festive yuletide celebration. A relatively new tradition, it has been going on for about four years. Mostly attended by my younger colleagues, the party consists lots of laughter, teacher talk, good food and the usual libations; all of which precede the "Ugly Ornament Contest". (This contest becomes the topic of many teacher conversations throughout the year and, now, I know why. But that is a topic for yet another blog.) In my desire to make that all-important first impression, I knew I needed to bring the best dish to share. "Aunt Anne's Buffalo chicken Dip" went over so well, I think I might be "in" again next year. We had a blast, laughed out loud and made many new friends. Thank you, Aunt Anne!

Aunt Anne's Buffalo Chicken Dip
4 boneless chicken breasts, boiled and shredded
1 12-oz bottle hot sauce
2 8-oz. Philadelphia cream cheese
1 8 oz bottle Blue Cheese dressing
1 8-oz bottle Ranch dressing
1 8-oz package Monterrey Jack cheese- shredded
½ cup copped celery

Mix shredded chicken with hot sauce and spread in bottom of 13X9 pan. Over medium heat melt cream cheese and dressings until smooth. Pour over chicken mixture. Top with Monterrey Jack cheese and celery. Bake at 350 for 35-40 minutes until bubbly. Let sit 10-15 minutes before serving. Serve with Frito scoops.
mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

Winter mornings...

2006-12-13T05:42:00.000-06:00

We had a week of picture-perfect winter mornings that would have been suitable for a Lange calendar! The brilliant moon, though now waning, lighted the still-dark sky and bounced its beams off piles of snow from our recent 12-inch dump. Snow brings thoughts of Christmas and the carols played in my mind as I drove to school each morning. Morning after morning I delighted to see the moon up above; a polished pearl brightening the blue gray sky, while ribbons of sunlight began forming across the landscape. The whiteness of the winter added to my mood and the snow had its usual "youth-a-nizing" effect on me. What a gift from God.
Two melting days later, dense fog and gray outlines are all I can make out. Its just plain wet. Moon and sun are hiding. And just like any jolt of reality or major change in life, it is hard to take. But I have already decided to hum Christmas carols as I drive to school this morning, and thank God for ALL his wonderful GIFTS.

"So much, so much, so much..."

2006-11-30T05:46:00.000-06:00

"...so much
... so much to be thankful for."
The words of this chorus and its catchy melody are still playing in my head since learning it at Caledonia Church on Sunday. We do, indeed, have so much to be thankful for and it was a fun way to be reminded of that fact by learning this little tune. It was good to be with God's people and to worship in His house. It was good to be ministered to through song and the preaching of the Word. It was good to see the love of God radiate in the kind eyes and smiling faces of ordinary people. It was good.

As easy as 1-2-3-4-5-6-7......

2006-11-17T16:42:00.000-06:00

First you don't look at the directions...

Then you count all the pieces....

Then you wonder why they designed it that way...
... you look for your tools, but can't find them...
...you end up using Mom's kitchen tools....
...you peek at the directions eventually...
... and you only break one piece in the process...

(Like Father, like Daughter!)

... and VOILA! Owen love his new play area!
(Thanks to Karen and Karina!)

Happy Birthday, Karen...

2006-11-09T21:24:00.000-06:00

May fond memories come to mind
as you celebrate your day.
May sweet cards from loved ones
have kind things to say.
You have been blessed so far
to keep the years at bay.
Keep living, loving, laughing
and showing us the way.

With all my love to my little sister.
Happy Birthday
(Hope you have a finger-licking good time!)

It's a girl...

2006-11-03T06:25:00.000-06:00

Julie and Todd have welcomed Sadie to their little farm.
A sweet little thoroughbred filly, she is certainly going to keep Julie busy with all the training and teaching it takes to break in a yearling. So happy for you, Jewels, to have a "pony of your own" again! She reminds me of Nick...

Dear Rachel...

2006-11-02T05:59:00.000-06:00

Dear Rachel,
You are our little lamb and you have always been our friend, too. Even as the youngest, you have brought great joy to your family. Your life has been an example. You have been my hero and my inspiration. (Look where you have encouraged me to go!) You have shared your Daddy's great faith, and you have put it to work in your life. You are such a gifted teacher and, now, the best Mother a little boy could want! We love you and continue to pray for all the best in your life.
Here you are! Keep smiling. Keep teaching. Keep "looking unto Jesus"....

Two Mary Elizabeths...

2006-10-31T17:21:00.000-06:00

Our own version of the "Odd Couple"...
EMMY and MIMI...

Who would have thought that this match would last?

Who could have predicted they would still be together?
What in the world does this mean?

"The reason grandchildren and grandparents get along so well is that they have a common enemy" ~Sam Levenson

The Woo Hoo Girl...

2006-10-29T07:14:00.000-06:00

She sure puts the "woo" back in my Woo Hoo.

Who?

That girl. That's who!

Who else?

In a very short few days she introduced me to her home on Harbour Island; got me to walk four miles along Tampa's Bayshore Blvd; got me to eat healthy smoothies for breakfast, wraps for lunch and Caprisi salad for supper; introduced me to Sushi; entertained me in her company's box at the Forum for NHL Hockey with the Tampa Bay Lightning; and took me to the beach at Fort DeSoto. We still took time to sprawl on the couch for quality tube time, had our coffee at Starbucks, a cool drink by the pool and still got nine hours of sleep at night! Who else could pull that off?

Her little corner of the world is beautiful and busy. The way she likes it. Living in a one-bedroom apartment on Dock View Way, she is within walking distance of Tampa's downtown including: the Florida Aquarium, the Convention Center, the Forum where the Lightning play hockey, the Port of Tampa where the cruise ships dock, the IMAX, historic (and fun) Ybor City, and virtually hundreds of shops, delis, pubs, clubs, theaters, sidewalk cafes and coffee shops. I met so many freinds and acquaintances I couldn't count them all. (If she were to live there a few more years, she could run for mayor!)

She puts the "woo" in my Woo Hoo; and in the lives of countless other friends, I am sure!

At the beach...

Tampa at night...

Dune buggy ride...

Geometry connections...

2006-10-13T16:11:00.000-05:00

A2 + B2 = C2

Dear Miss Harvey,

I have found myself thinking about you many times throughout the years since my high school days. Those were a long time ago! You were my geometry teacher back then and you even saw fit to give me the Geometry Award that year. It was one of many difficult years in my life, but that Award was a bright spot! I don’t know if I thanked you… but, Thanks now.

One Homecoming we needed some leaves and branches for decorating or for on our float and you brought us to your home to get some. We got to see your beautiful woods and land. It was an unusual gesture to have a teacher be so kind and generous. Another time you gently scolded me about my behavior. I wasn’t used to such a quiet voice while being corrected. It made me think. It sunk in….. You were one teacher in a million. I believe you cared. Thank you.

I graduated in 1967 and left Evansville High School and Evansville forever. (Since my parents, and then my mother, lived there for several years, I did go back to visit!) I went on to the University and graduated with a teaching degree. I married and had a family. I was privileged to be able to stay home with my young children while helping my husband to run his business. Teaching was always in my heart, however. Later I worked for 12 years in an office while we put our kids through college – all four of them – and daughters, too! Soon after the youngest graduated I went back to school to update my teaching credentials and got certified in Special Education.

This is my second year teaching at Kettle Moraine High School. As hard as it is, I love it. I get to work with so many young people with so many needs and I can give them the love, discipline and encouragement that they crave. I have learned to use that quiet voice that always takes them by surprise. I hope I am following in your footsteps.

The reason I decided to write you is because I am co-teaching a geometry class this year. I love it. I am helping today’s ninth and tenth graders navigate that “dreaded” course! Because I support the students with special needs, as well, I am giving them access to the regular math curriculum. This is satisfying work. I understand that, though you are retired from teaching, you are still working with youth that have many and varied needs. The world is a better place because of you. Thank you. Your geometry student.

Our "baby boy" is four months old...

2006-10-12T19:06:00.000-05:00

Snowflakes are flying this afternoon and it is a biting cold that blows in my face as I dash to the parking lot. For me, it is way too soon for thoughts of winter; for thoughts of coats and hats and gloves and boots. I'm not quite ready to face it all so as I drive home from work, I fade back into my favorite contemmplation - baby Owen.
Four months ago - when it was HOT and summertime - Owee made his way into the world. It is a miracle at which we still marvel and a joy beyond description. Since that day we just can't seem to get enough of him. When we can't see him we have to settle for looking at all of his pictures over and over again. (It's a good thing pictures don't wear out just by looking at them!) He's enough to make a grown man sing... and here is Owen's Grampa doing just that!

Life on a Mountain Top...

2006-10-08T08:09:00.000-05:00

or... Many reasons to marry your best friend...
You trust him!
You like t0 be with him!
You know what he likes!
You have so much fun together!
You both love to do crazy things, and he is as crazy as you!
You can travel to fun places together!
You LOVE him! And he LOVES you!
You want to take care of him! And he takes good care of you..................
Happy First Anniversary Todd and Jewels!

Here he is... "keeping the excitement in the marriage!"
Have fun, Todd. We love you!

Good times...

2006-10-07T21:09:00.000-05:00

Lori Jo's birthday became another wonderful excuse to get together in North Prairie. From Thursday until Sunday we made up for all the weeks and months we were apart! We saw the sights in Milwaukee, met up with friends and relatives, enjoyed lunch downtown, a steak dinner at home, Mexican food and Margaritas for Lori's party, a cozy late night campfire, birthday cake with candles, and going out for breakfast! Owen found many welcoming arms to hold him and was hugged and squeezed (until he ___ed)! A special treat was travelling altogether in one vehicle - a borrowed van - and, like everything else, it got nicknamed by Lori Jo. I hope we can borrow "Therapist Van" next time we get together in Wisconsin...

Thirty looks good on you girl....

2006-09-23T08:14:00.000-05:00

Happy Birthday, Lori Jo! You have given new meaning
to our lives for 30 years.

"Little Wise One"; "Little General"; "Lo-Jo"; "Little Wise-acre"; "BOBO" ;"No Kissing in here!"; "It isn't funny"; "The President"; "I Want a Big Mac!"; "I'll just drink it out of the bottle"; "Rub-a-dub Doggie"; "Little Beau"; "Gimme a Mick-Ultra"; "I just wanted to say ONE more thing";
"What did we name you? - Barb!"; "The Mayor"; "Just a few close friends - 47 of them"; "The Organizer"; "The Delagator"; "List-maker" and
"Ha-Ha, I beat you!".......

Thanks for all the good times!
All our LOVE,
Dad and Mom XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXO

Twin girls!!!

2006-09-21T17:35:00.000-05:00

The only news that could be better than "Karina's having a girl" is the news that "Karina is having TWIN girls!" We are thrilled for her and for Jason, who has been hoping for his little girl... Now there will be TWO!
Into a house full of boys toys, and into the den called "Man Land", there will be an invasion... I can see it now. A flurry of pink and giggles and laughter; the silly and flirtatious competition for Daddy's affection and Mommy's attention. Much to the wonderment of the little boys, two sisters will turn their world upside down! Two little button noses, two pairs of twinkling eyes and two little smiles will melt their hearts. May God bless this little family, protect this nurturing Mommy and bring these little ones to a safe and healthy delivery.

Owen therapy...

2006-09-16T21:48:00.000-05:00

...is exactly what we need to chase those blues away.
This little guy puts a smile on a tired face. He reaches out and touches the soft spot in his Grandpa's heart. He snuggles under that strong chin, grabs hold of this hard-working man's shirt and promptly falls asleep.
Is that a tear you see, or does Grandpa have something in his eye?

Vacation...

2006-09-09T15:54:00.000-05:00

has been defined as "...leisure time away from work, devoted to rest or pleasure". Everyone needs this; from the sleep-starved new Mommy who would LOVE a 45-minute nap to the guy putting in 20 hours of overtime who thinks longingly of his unused easy chair. I know that some people actually do take vacations for days and even weeks at a time.

Though some people never get the chance to do it; they simply don't know how to stop working long enough to take the time for rest, relaxation and enjoyment! Then there are those folks that take time off from their work; but only to do different kinds of work!

I am married to just such a guy. To him a holiday usually means a chance to replace another window or door and get caught up on yardwork, wood cutting and vehicle repairs. A once-a-year trip to the cabin usually turns into fixing boats and motors or performing other repairs. One year, since the motor wouldn't work, he ended up rowing the complete width of the lake. Now THAT is a chore! Please don't get me wrong! I am not complaining. His work ethic was one of the reasons I picked him in the first place. But I think that it is time for him to learn the meaning of the word "vacation" and discover leisure, rest and recreation. Heck, he doesn't even own an easy chair. Well, I am beginning to think it's now or never!
Being that I am almost as bad about staying late at school and bringing work home on weekends, I will need to be innovative and creative about re-discovering leisure. It might mean starting slowly; trying some small things; setting some work boundaries; and then planning for some "mini-vacations". When we start to change our thinking about work and put it in perspective there might be time for: an hour bike ride in the Kettle Moraine; a couple of hours at the zoo; a hike in the woods; a half-hour swaying in the porch swing; an afternoon at the art museum; a casual drive along the lake; or even a 45 minute excursion to the Lapham peak tower for taking in the panorama. How about it? Does anyone else need a vacation?

Baby Boy Update... or "5 Little Boys"

2006-08-29T07:17:00.000-05:00

"Little Boy Loved" with his Mommy.

"Little Boy Sleepy" in Mommy's arms.

" Little Boy Cuddly" with Great Aunt Dianne:

"Little Boy Spoiled"? Never...

" Little Boy Growing Up" before our very eyes!

The heirloom baby crib...

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He always knew that he wanted to make the little bed that our grandchildren would sleep in. It is something that he thought about for a long time. I encouraged him to go ahead and do it soon after we found out that we were to become grandparents!

Knowing that it had to be special, he planned to include the art of rosemaling as well as careful woodworking. Here he is at work on the rosemaling that will enhance the ends of the beautiful new crib.

Maple is the wood that he chose; carefully cutting, shaping, sanding and gluing it together. He spent many evenings in his wood shop, hoping that it would be perfect... hoping that it would please his family.
Putting on the final touches and fitting it with the hardware, the baby crib was lovingly completed just in time for some VERY special company! It turned out prettier than any of us could have imagined. Owen and his Mommy loved it.

Thank you, Grandpa Phil.

Love, Owee